Hmm, so here’s a pickle: let’s say you meet a guy under dubious circumstances and a he’s a total snack — way tastier than you usually get a shot at — and he seems to think you ain’t so bad, either. As a bonus, he turns out to be sweet and even able to hold up his end in a conversation. Score! Now let’s say you’re a jaded old mess already, so you don’t worry about whether or not there’s any future, because it’s just much easier to go with the flow. So what’s the rub? Oh yeah, that boyfriend he tells you about. You admire his candor and have every intention of having as much fun as you can squeeze out of the situation (which, apparently, the BF is OK with), so what’s nagging at you in the back of your mind? Oh yeah, that loss of possibility, that awareness that at best you’ll be a fondly remembered fling. Whatever. There are worse ways to amuse yourself.