{"id":1828,"date":"2009-07-06T23:25:48","date_gmt":"2009-07-06T23:25:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/2009\/07\/06\/pink_minx\/"},"modified":"2024-11-28T10:18:46","modified_gmt":"2024-11-28T15:18:46","slug":"pink_minx","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/2009\/07\/06\/pink_minx\/","title":{"rendered":"Pink Minx"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Gay Shame 1\" src=\"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/cam\/gay_shame_1.jpg\" width=\"100%\" height=\"360\" vspace=\"5\"><\/p>\n<p><strong>Having grown up with a life-long concern<\/strong> about being perceived as a sissy, largely due to a long childhood being called a called a sissy or being told not to be one, I opted to participate in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/lifeandstyle\/2009\/jul\/03\/gay-shame-femininity-duckie-brixton\">Gay<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.guardian.co.uk\/stage\/theatreblog\/2009\/jul\/06\/duckie-gay-shame\">Shame<\/a> (this year&#8217;s theme: <a href=\"http:\/\/duckie.co.uk\/generic.asp?id=96&amp;submenu=shame&amp;special=_girly\">A Festival of Femininity<\/a>) by confronting my neurotic aversion of wearing pink for fear of looking too girly, and by trying to look like quite a big sissy. I succeeded, and had tremendous fun.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Gay Shame 2\" src=\"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/cam\/gay_shame_2.jpg\" width=\"360\" height=\"480\" vspace=\"5\"><\/p>\n<p>[Incriminating photos from the lovely <a href=\"http:\/\/www.overyourhead.co.uk\">Mr Green<\/a>, who wore white, not pink.]<\/p>\n<p>The ladies and gentlemen of the <a href=\"http:\/\/gbge.aclu.org\/\">ACLU LGBT Project<\/a> also wore pink at last week&#8217;s Pride festivities, or at least bright fuschia t-shirts I designed for them. According to the <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.sfgate.com\/cgi-bin\/article.cgi?f=\/c\/a\/2009\/06\/30\/DDR218E1O4.DTL\">San Francisco Chronicle<\/a><\/i>:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>On the other hand, it was down with drab for do-gooders. The ACLU&#8217;s fuchsia T-shirts with green Statue of Liberty crowns: simple yet sublimely multicolored.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/img\/bostonglobepride.jpg\" width=\"100%\" alt=\"ACLU Pride\" vspace=\"5\"><\/p>\n<p>I still hate wearing pink, but I am quite proud \u2014 no, I am quite <i>pleased<\/i> \u2014 to be a big ol&#8217; nancy homo fairy who likes to kiss and hold hands and stuff with other dudes.<\/p>\n<p>And in case you didn&#8217;t get it, this post&#8217;s title is a shameless reference to <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pinkmince.com\">Pink Mince<\/a><\/i>, a little zine thing I\u2019ve started publishing. Why haven&#8217;t you ordered a copy yet?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Having grown up with a life-long concern about being perceived as a sissy, largely due to a long childhood being called a called a sissy or being told not to be one, I opted to participate in Gay Shame (this year&#8217;s theme: A Festival of Femininity) by confronting my neurotic aversion of wearing pink for &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/2009\/07\/06\/pink_minx\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading<span class=\"screen-reader-text\"> &#8220;Pink Minx&#8221;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[9,5,6,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1828","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-ultragay","category-ultrapersonal","category-ultraphotographic","category-ultrapink"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1828","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1828"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1828\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":36463,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1828\/revisions\/36463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1828"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1828"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ultrasparky.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1828"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}